coaching, goal-setting, Problem-solving, teens

Your teen and you: No 2 – Creating a win-win study agreement.


Create a study agreement that both you and your teen are happy with. I have some further ideas to increase your chances of success when you negotiate with your teen, about anything really, but in this case the amount of study they are doing. I talk again about the importance of listening openly and without… Continue reading Your teen and you: No 2 – Creating a win-win study agreement.

coaching, Problem-solving

How to Discuss Doing Homework Together with Your Child


Simple negotiation steps to gain your child's permission to read/write/do maths at home more often: These negotiation steps are written for a younger child but can also be used to negotiate anything with your teen, from driving your car, to completing all homework at high school, to studying more regularly for exams. 1. The soft… Continue reading How to Discuss Doing Homework Together with Your Child

Problem-solving, teens

Helping your teen do homework: Negotiate with respect and firmness


The power of respectful negotiation – it moves mountains… and teens. Negotiate homework with your teen - don't pressure and push them or bribe or reason. You probably already know this but I’ll say it anyway. Coercion won’t work with anyone in the long run. Your teen might do their homework, but they will be… Continue reading Helping your teen do homework: Negotiate with respect and firmness